When we imagine how a particular situation might play out in reality, we might think we're ahead of the game because we've considered the variables and possibilities that could play out. Then the day arrives, except that most of our planned course of action doesn't pan out. Has this happened to you, too? Last May, when our youngest graduated High School, I caught a glimpse of how it would look in August when he went off to College. How in less than three months, he would be s